Your cousin is right — for most experienced importers, FOB is the preferred term. But let me explain why so you can make an informed decision.
Under FOB (Free On Board): Risk transfers to you when the goods are loaded onto the vessel at origin. You are responsible for booking the ocean freight, arranging cargo insurance, and handling import clearance. Your freight forwarder manages all of this on your behalf.
Under CIF (Cost, Insurance & Freight): Your supplier handles the ocean freight and a minimum insurance policy, and delivers to the named destination port. You take over from the moment the ship arrives at the destination port.
Why most importers prefer FOB:
- Control over your supply chain: With FOB, you choose your forwarder, your carrier, your insurance policy, and your routing. This matters for reliability, tracking, and having a single point of contact when things go wrong.
- Transparency on costs: CIF pricing bundles freight + insurance into the seller's margin. You have no visibility into what they're actually paying for freight. Many Chinese suppliers add a markup of 10–20% on the freight they arrange.
- Insurance quality: CIF requires only minimum coverage (110% of cargo value, Institute Cargo Clauses C — the most basic). You'd want All Risk coverage anyway.
Is $1,700 a fair CIF premium? That depends on shipment size. If this is a 1–2 CBM small parcel, $1,700 is extremely high. If it's a 15+ CBM LCL or an FCL, it might be roughly market rate. Ask the supplier for a freight cost breakdown.
My recommendation: Get a freight forwarder (there are many good ones with no minimums), buy on FOB terms, and control your own logistics.